So, you’ve made it to Delhi University—congratulations! You’re in for some of the best years of your life, but let’s be real: college can feel like an awkward speed-dating event where you desperately try to find “your people.”
Whether you’re a fresh-faced Fresher or a second-year student who still feels like a loner in the crowd, making friends doesn’t have to be as scary as that first Economics lecture. Here’s your ultimate guide to making friends in DU (without looking like a complete weirdo).
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1. The “Accidental Friendship” Strategy: Talk to Everyone
Ever found yourself in a never-ending admission line or awkwardly waiting outside a lecture hall? These moments are golden opportunities to strike up a conversation.
A simple “Hey, what’s the next class?” or “Have you figured out which notes to follow?” can instantly break the ice. Tip: Carry an extra pen; you never know when a “Hey, can I borrow a pen?” moment will lead to a long-term friendship.
2. Join Societies: Because That’s Where the Magic Happens
Delhi University has a society for EVERYTHING—drama, debating, dance, photography, and even quizzing for those who love flexing their GK. Joining a society means weekly meetups, inside jokes, and eventually, a group of people who’ll spam your WhatsApp every day.
If you’re unsure, attend a few orientation sessions, see where you vibe, and then stick to one or two societies (joining five and then ghosting all of them isn’t a great look).
3. The “Canteen Connection” Hack: Food = Friendships
Never underestimate the bonding power of Rajma Chawal at the college canteen. Whether you’re grabbing a chai break or hunting for the best momos in North Campus, inviting someone to eat with you is an instant friendship starter.
Pro Tip: If you have an always-filled tiffin, offer a bite—it works wonders (except maybe during a pandemic).
4. Attend College Fests: Where Friendships Are Born in Crowds
DU’s fest season is legendary, and you don’t need to be an extrovert to enjoy it. Tag along with your classmates, volunteer at your college fest, or randomly start dancing at Crossroads (SRCC) or Mecca (Hindu College)—instant bonding is guaranteed. Fest buddies often turn into lifelong friends.
5. Be the “Group Project Hero”
We all know group projects are 90% one person doing the work and 10% everyone else pretending to contribute. Be the one who actually helps, and you’ll not only win your professor’s heart but also land a grateful squad who’ll invite you to birthday parties (and group study sessions before finals).
6. Be Open, Be Yourself (but Not Too Weird at First)
You don’t need to reinvent yourself to make friends. Be approachable, ask people about their interests, and avoid forcing friendships—they’ll happen naturally. Also, don’t overshare in the first meeting (telling someone your deep childhood trauma before knowing their full name = not ideal).
7. Social Media = Social Life Booster
Follow college pages, WhatsApp groups, and student forums to stay updated about events. Sometimes, even a simple meme reply can start a conversation that turns into friendship.
Final Thoughts: Don’t Stress, It Happens
Making friends in college isn’t a science experiment—it’s about showing up, being open, and finding people who get your vibe. Some friendships will happen instantly, others might take a few months, and that’s okay!
By the end of your DU journey, you’ll have a gang to share bun maskas with, scream “Ganda laga diya” during elections, and cry over assignments with.
So go out there, start conversations, and remember—you’re not alone in this. Everyone’s just as eager (or nervous) to make friends as you are. You got this!